"ABSENTEE MOMS & UNFIT MOTHERS/YOU DON'T GET A PASS"

In today's society aided by America's Family Court System,in some cases not all.Unfit mother's & absentee mom's get a pass.Some of these woman have long records of abuse & neglect with the local children family services,still somehow custody of the children  is given to these woman.They also owe large amounts of child support for the child who's in the fathers custody.Are they getting a pass from the system?These same woman continue to get pregnant,are on public assistance and not willing to become a better parent or a productive member of society.Generally these woman have 3 to 10 children.The fathers are no where to be found,still these woman continue to have babies.It's as if they have no sense of what their doing.Their children are growing up in a dysfunctional home.Generally the children are exposed to different men,drugs & physical abuse.Boys with these kinds of woman raising them.Wind up joining gangs, going to jail and have issues in school, etc.The girls follow the path of the mother when it come to boys.These mothers will give their children ADHD meds. because the school guidance counselor said their child is too active,plus you can get more free money from the state.They will jump on this without hesitation.Getting a second opinion is the furthest thought in their mind.This money is not being spent on the children.This money is spent on weaves,nails & eyelashes.They leave the children to fend for themselves,while they're out doing whatever.These same woman have the inability to accept personal responsibility for their actions and how they are living.Now let's talk about the absentee mother who is not in their child's life by choice.She doesn't take out the time to get involved with her child.Why because she doesn't want to nor does she contribute monetarily.And when she does occasionally,she wants a medal. Meanwhile she owes rears in child support and the local child support courts are not pursuing her in the same manner they would pursue a father who owes child support.I wonder why that is?There a lot of men in jail due to not paying child support,at the same time you have absentee moms. Who are not in jail.There's not a lot of focus on this issue,well it's time to change that.In some courts change is happening.I hope it catches on across America.If the courts can go after the fathers,then the courts can go after the mothers.It's time to get the message out "Absentee Moms & Unfit Mothers","You Don't Get A Pass"!
No Violence-Know Peace!

"FATHERLESS YOUTH/IT'S TIME TO MAN UP"

Many of our troubled youth & young adults are fatherless,especially in urban communities across the nation.Many of their fathers are incarcerated or on drugs.Some are dead,so let's not focus on them.Let's focus on the fathers who have abandoned their sons & daughters and their responsibilities.These fathers are living their lives with no concern for the child they helped conceive.These men seem to be totally unaware of the impact of what they have done to their child.These same men blame the mother of the child,for their irresponsibility as fathers.Most of these men didn't grow up with fathers,not acknowledging the impact it had on their own lives.Does it ever occur to them it's time to break the cycle,and give their children what they didn't have.These same men have the nerve to get angry when they are ordered to appear in court for child support.I say if your not taking care of your child,who cares if you get angry.It's time to man up!Your son or daughter need you in a mighty way,not just monetarily.For guidance & protection,if you don't know how to be a father,then learn.Talk to responsible fathers you know,Attend fatherhood workshops & parental skills classes.Men who who are not steppin up for their children are part of the senseless death of our youth, in our communities.Stop only showing up for your child's funeral and get involved in your child's life.They need you right now.Men need to get over whatever differences they may have with their child's mother.Their child has become collateral damage because of it.Too many single mothers in urban communities today.Stop being baby daddies and be a father.Give your child a chance to have something,you may not have had as a child.Children are a gift from God.Our children are dying,part of the reason is no father in their lives.It's time to wake up and realize it's not about you it's about your child.If  you call yourself a man,then it's time to "Man Up" for your son or daughter....No Violence-Know Peace!

THE ILLUSIONS OF SOLUTIONS=MASS CONFUSION,

Armed teachers,bulletproof backpacks and law enforcement in every school.NRA's solution is "A good guy with gun is the solution to a bad guy with a gun". Banning of assault weapons,stricter gun laws.More thorough back ground checks of people buying guns.Media frenzy on the Gun issue as a whole. Celebrities making videos and cameos saying "Enough".Gun buy backs on the rise,mean while gun sales increase.In Urban communities nothings changed,shootings still occur on a daily basis.Suburban communities demand action on stopping the shootings of innocent people.The perpetrators of mass shootings are always lone gunmen & insane hmm!Families shattered,children traumatized in Suburban communities.Grabs a nation's attention,meanwhile in Urban communities children have been dying,parents burying their babies for quite sometime now. Troubled youth & young adults gunning each other down in Urban communities and no outrage from the nation.Mental health is on the table.The President signs a E/O because Americas unstable.Is anything going to change, probably in Suburbia there will be some change.Not in Urban communities.Because if there's a plan to stop the violence,Urban communities aren't in the equation.People feeding into the illusions of solutions,not realizing it's all a delusion.Reality is it's the sign of the times.Confusing us to the point of frustration.While we wait and see what will happen, remember if nothing changes,nothing changes.......... No Violence-Know Peace

"WITHOUT WARNING"

Recently here in America there have been mass shootings.The shooting of innocent children & adults by supposedly lone gunmen with the same M/O.What is really going on is the question some of us have yet to ask ourselves.These mass shootings are occurring more frequently,and I believe something else is happening in America.Our government knows and is not telling the people of this country who's behind these mass shootings.Let's take a look where these shootings are taking place.Malls,theaters,schools,etc located in towns where folks believe they are safe from Mass shootings.Are these places deliberately targeted?Has anyone read the Executive Order 13603 the President signed on 03/16/12.Was this E/O signed because of a outside threat to America or a inside threat.Gun Violence in Urban communities and Mass shootings in Suburban communities is there a connection?Probably not,one thing is for sure people are dying. Foreign terrorism is what American soldiers put their lives on the line to protect us from.Who's protecting us from,what I believe is home grown terrorism.I know this reads like a conspiracy,still I suggest you do some research of your own.The media is giving the public sensationalism,not journalism about these mass shootings.Media is controlled by the Government.People dying "Without Warning" are the collateral damage of a war that's been declared inside America,by it's own citizens....NO VIOLENCE-KNOW PEACE!

"A VINDICTIVE RACE"

Since the reelection of President Obama,I've heard stories of vindictive actions against African Americans by those who believe they somehow are above African Americans.Well it's time for a reminder about African American's history in America.Who built the White House & this country,we did by way of slavery and blood sweat & tears.Lest not forget the inventions and medical contributions "Vindictive America" benefited from.The vindictive soul of racist America has chosen to forget or doesn't care about our contributions to America.The Forefather's of Americas Racism time is short,so they breed more like themselves to continue their legacy.The rude awaking they're experiencing is their own is turning on them.This is something they thought would never happen,just like a blackman in the White House.They have become desperate in their attempt to keep people of color oppressed.African Americans are a resilient & forgiving race of people,sometimes I believe we are too forgiving.To be successful in America,African Americans have always had to go to any lengths to succeed,even if it meant selling out their own.The guilt of your past keeps you in denial about yourselves "Vindictive America",You owe African Americans Reparations,which we have yet to receive.It's a shame how you give to those who where not born here,the ways & means to live comfortable in this country.Meanwhile still creating traps for African Americans,such as allowing guns to be flooded in urban communities.Which helps your "New Jim Crow" agenda to thrive.There are those of us African Americans who are on to you,we will continue to bring awareness to African Americans,just like the Jews came here and made their way,so shall we.A African American President is only the beginning,so hate us if you will. God has declared "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH"!Hate yourselves for your atrocities against us throughout the history of America......No Violence-Know Peace!

AMERICA'S REACTION AFTER ELECTION 2012

Now that President Barack Obama has been reelected for another 4yrs. There has been joy,disappointment,anger, & hate.America is divided by race not politics,this is my reality.This is not at all surprising to me.Those who's candidate did not win,are saying America will not sustain itself,unless this country is lead by a white person.These same  people hide their racism behind political rhetoric,knowing damn well they're racist.Many Americans of all races are relieved by the result of the Presidential election,knowing that the leadership we have in America is the leadership we need.Hate the fuel that feeds racism will tell racist to vote for someone who does not have Americas best interest in their heart.That someone was counting on America's racism to win them the election.Well racism was defeated.Now racism is desperate and will try to antagonize or pick a fight in various ways.Through media,social networks,etc.Now if you ask me how I feel about racist,my answer is I have empathy for their ignorant & hateful souls.Greed led by racism is in the process of crumbling.For America to be strong,we must stand with each other,not one race standing over another.Is that Democracy,no it isn't. When America is attacked on it's home soil,we stand together as Americans (example 911).It is time to stand together for the betterment of America and not let the beast of racism tear our nation apart.
No Violence-Know Peace!

"OUR TIME"

I was inspired to write this blog after listening to President Obama accept his nomination for reelection this past November 2012.
This blog is not to meant offend anyone,who is not a Black American.
Hopefully it will inspire others who are not Black Americans,and need a "Wake Up"!

Black Americans this is our time,we've had 6yrs to catch on to the fact that this is "Our Time".
Lets not blow it!It's time to free ourselves from ourselves. We've been waiting far too long for the opportunity we now have.We must capitalize on President Obama being in the "White House".We've been praying and asking God to help us,well God has delivered.Now it's up to us to not take God's Grace & Mercy for granted.It's time to better educate ourselves and better educate our children,The first family is living in the house,they said we would never occupy.It's the proof of what we can do as Black Americans.There are no more excuses we can make for our conditions.We now have a leader who when he speaks is telling us how to lift up ourselves to the level we need to be.Yes he is the President of the USA,not the president of Black America.Still we can achieve what others believe we can't.Black men it's time to change our mindsets about ourselves,our children & Black women.Black woman its time to change your mindset about your children & Black men.Black family values & unity,must be a priority.It's time to stop being led astray by false prophets on Sunday morning.God is watching and waiting for us to catch on to the fact that if we really want change,that change begins with us.God has more patience than we could ever imagine.How much longer shall we choose to procrastinate and believe someone else is going to do it for us.Our Troubled youth & young adults are being led to the grave & prison by those who know,that this is "Our Time".Our children's education is being sabotaged by those who know that education is the key to our "Rise"as Black Americans.Education will bring us where we need to be economically.Our spirituality needs a major overhaul.Some of us are giving their money to Churches instead of investing in their community.This type of foolishness needs to stop.One of the reasons we don't have as many black owned businesses as we should, is because we're not investing in our communities.Instead we have allowed others to profit in our communities,we don't have to stand for nor go along with it.This mindset of every bodies angry at each needs to stop,instead lets begin the healing process of ourselves.We are the only race that's stingy with each other,The more we share,the more we Rise."Our Time" maybe the only chance get to "Rise" as a people. Self help is the best help.Our Rise is not to oppress others,it's to bring us to the level we can and need to be as Black Americans in America.
No Violence-Know Peace!